Frequently Asked Questions

How do I see you? I’m a newbie!

Welcome. I know it can be confusing to navigate everything. But as long as you’re open minded and willing to follow instructions, I’ll help you navigate the reservation process.

As a first timer, there’s some information you should know:

1. I screen all clients for my safety. I need your full legal name, preferred contact details and information to make me feel safe.
   You can make me feel safe with one of the following: your work email address, LinkedIn profile URL, 2 references, your professional website with public contact info, P411 information or upfront deposit.
   You can view everything I need on my booking page. It’s quite streamlined.
2. All dates are subject to a deposit. I use deposits to make sure you’re serious about booking with me and to make plans for our time together.
   Read this portion of my FAQ to address the concern further.
3. Please don’t message about or allude to any sexual acts through text before we meet. I won’t see you if you do.
4. My time should be paid in full before or at the time of meeting.
5. I want to help you wind down through intimacy and adventure. Let’s enjoy ourselves.

Read on if you have more questions or concerns. My YouTube channel has a lot of great info for newbies, too.

Are you vaccinated for COVID-19?

For sure! I’m fully vaccinated plus a booster shot.

My health practices are important to me because I know they keep me, you and the rest of the world safe. Despite visiting several countries in 2020 & 2021, I haven’t contracted COVID or another virus in the last 2 years.

Where are you? Where is your incall?

I have a home base in Minneapolis, USA. However, I live an international lifestyle. Please see my calendar for upcoming availability.

I love fly-me-to-you dates (FMTY dates) worldwide. They’re my favorite kind of date. Given enough notice, I can visit most countries.

I host (incall) in hotels or upscale residences and visit such locations for outcalls. If I’m hosting, I’ll provide the address either the night before or the morning of our date.

How do I pronounce ‘Leijla’?

My name is pronounced Lay-luh. It’s a different spelling of Layla or Leila.

What is a FMTY date? How do I do it?

A FMTY date (fly-me-to-you date) is a date in which you request me to travel to a city of your choice. You live in London? I come to London to see you. Have a conference in San Diego? We’ll meet each other there.

The cost for a FMTY is my base rate + travel costs (transportation and hotel).

The first step for a FMTY date is to reach out to me a) via my contact form or b) with an introductory email. Introductory emails should have screening information plus details of your date request (city, dates, how long is requested).

Once you’re screened and we establish a basic outline for our time together, you’ll make a deposit. The standard deposit is $1,000 USD. After that I like to have a 30-minute video/phone chat so we can get to know each other before we meet and talk about how we’d like our time to pass together. This chat is included in your date price.

Until the time of our date we’ll keep in touch to make vacation plans together. If you have any further questions about FMTY dates, I can answer them after your introductory email with screening information.

When are you coming to my city?

I travel regularly. See my calendar for where I’m going next.

If you book a FMTY date, I’ll visit your city when it’s best for you given enough notice. If a FMTY date isn’t for you, I can add your city to one of my tours for a 4+ hour reservation.

I’m often asked to let lovers know when I’m coming to their city/area. If you want to know about my upcoming travel plans, please join my email list or follow me on Twitter

What’s your ideal date?

My perfect date begins with flirting over a tasting menu, show or adrenaline-inducing activity (skiing, amusement park, swimming with sharks).

At the risk of sounding cliché, the most intriguing organ is located between our ears. I’m a bisexual drawn to curiosity, ambition and intellect. Though males tend to grab my eye, I’m attracted to all gender identities (female, non-binary, trans) as long as our minds connect.

Will you provide a reference?

If we’ve met in the past year and it went well don’t hesitate to use me as reference. No need to ask permission, just pass my information along.

What’s your cancellation policy?

In-person reservations cancelled within 48 hours of meeting incur a cancellation fee 50% of my rate. No-call/no shows & reservations cancelled within 24 hours of meeting incur a 100% fee.

If non-refundable travel expenses were incurred for FMTY dates, those costs are added to my cancellation fee.

Video chats cancelled less than 60 minutes before are subject to a cancellation fee of 50% of my donation.

Cancellation fees are paid before another date can be confirmed between us.

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Do I have to pay a deposit?

Yes. The standard deposit amount is $200 USD, but can increase. A FMTY date deposit is usually $1000 USD.

All deposits are non-refundable. Deposits are transferable to a future meeting up to 1 year in the future as long as any non-refundable travel expenses are covered.

I don’t process financial information on my website. All credit/debit card information is processed through a secured PCI compliant third party.

Deposits can be paid electronically, with cryptocurrency (Bitcoin, Ether and TrueUSD, Nano), Cash App, debit card and credit card. Please contact me if you wish to pay via Crypto or Cash App.

For Americans: To avoid using your personal debit/credit card, you can buy Mastercard or Visa Vanilla gift card(s) from CVS or Walgreens for a $5.95 fee. You can use whatever name you want on my deposit page.

What payment methods do you accept?

Credit or Debit Card is the easiest payment method. I also accept cash (fiat), CashApp and crypto.

Cryptocurrencies I accept include Bitcoin, Ether, Nano, and TrueUSD.

For Bitcoin, you may make a payment on my payment page. Please inquire about paying in Ether, Nano or TrueUSD. To pay in another cryptocurrency, please use a service like ShapeShift to convert the currency to one I accept. Payment with cryptocurrency must be completed and confirmed prior to our date.

If you want to use credit card in person read below for more information.

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Do you accept payment via credit/debit card?

Yes. If you’d like to pay via credit card for the full amount, I need to know at least 24 hours before our date.

When you request to pay with credit card, you’ll email me a photo of your Driver’s License or another government-issued ID. When we meet you’ll present your ID, sign an agreement and pay via your credit card. The name on your credit card must match the name on your presented government-issued ID.

If you don’t follow these instructions and you can’t pay, the reservation will be considered a last-minute cancellation.

What’s the best way to spoil you?

Honestly, the best way to spoil me is to book a FMTY date with me. I love heading off to exotic lands to experience new adventures.

My second favorite way is to tip me. I can be tipped through CashApp and OnlyFans. I’ll probably make be so happy I’ll give you a special photo in response. Email me for my CashApp info.

Considering a sweet treat for our date? Dark chocolate, Medjool dates and fresh berries are my favorite.

Please exercise restraint about gifting me alcohol (I rarely drink it), candy and other sweets. While all gifts are appreciated for their generosity, they can’t always be appreciated in the way you intend. I follow a plant-based (vegan) lifestyle and am invested in the health of my body and planet.

Finally, check out my wishlist. Lingerie, fund a photoshoot, donate towards a nonprofit on my wish list, buy a book. If you fund a new photoshoot, you’ll get the privilege of the first peek.

Are you ready to jet off together?

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