I’m Leijla Foss, aka the Slutty Nomad. Dinner companion, lifelong learner, plant-based foodie and FMTY date.
I come from humble beginnings. Born and raised in a small city in the Midwest USA.
I’m a middle child. As such, my natural state is blending in but I standing out when I need to. This ability comes in handy when doing international escorting.
One dream I had as a child was to be a lawyer. I craved being important and successful. Having freedom. Helping others while also making a lot of money.
I dreamed of living away from my hometown and blissfully seeing far off places, too. My dream grew ever bigger. I dreamed of traveling to places speaking foreign languages.
However, I also struggled when I was younger. Relating to my peers and family was a struggle. I didn’t fit in. I felt like an outsider— not unwelcome but never belonging either.
I struggled with putting myself first. I’ve always been keen to sense others’ feelings, which caused me to put others’ needs over my own. I felt the heavy pressure of what I ‘should‘ do, mostly for others and at my own expense.
My dreams were dampened by people around me. They avoided questioning authority and tradition. People who settled down in their small hometown and were content.
My exhilarating dreams of traveling abroad were framed as once-in-a-lifetime opportunities.
Looking back, my struggle to fit in helped me become the person I am today. Feeling like I didn’t fit in developed my ability to read and understand others. Not fitting in became part of my identity — I was comfortable being by myself. And the ‘shoulds‘ helped me think critically.
I transformed into an vibrant, independent woman who wasn’t afraid of being unique.
Years came and went. I attended university. I studied and traveled abroad. I dropped out of university. I started a blog. I moved to San Francisco. I became an escort. I achieved financial independence. I moved to Europe.
One thing I continued to struggle with was the ability to take care of and prioritize myself.
All those years of striving and achieving and I still struggled to put myself first. My dreams were more important than a living comfortably. I thought, There’s time to relax after I build my dream life.
But building my dream life came to a halt. I had to accept I wasn’t healthy enough to chase my dreams anymore.
No matter how long I slept, I woke up exhausted. Regardless of the skincare products I used, I hated my inflamed skin. My personal and professional relationships were strained because I was miserable.
After years of going at full throttle, I was forced to examine my life.
In August 2019, I began deep work on my health issues. I visited doctors, ran blood tests, ate special foods, took supplements. I bought guides, did group challenges lead by gurus, and researched on my own. I invested in a mindset coach to help me.
With a lack of a clear diagnosis, I questioned my actions. I wondered if what I did helped at all. The fear that I’d never get better haunted me. Perhaps I was simply destined to deal with this the rest of my life.
While there was community online, none of my connections understood my problems. I was lonely living abroad in 2020 without support.
I went through hell, but learned the invaluable lesson of taking care of myself. Investing in my mental, physical, and emotional self is essential to build my dream life. They’re part of my dream life..
My health is in check. And I truly enjoy my down time. I know that time away from being productive is bettering myself and my business. I have the energy to invest in myself beyond my health.
I’ve always had a love for learning. When I was younger, I had teachers to teach me standard curriculum. I devoured fiction books.
As I grew older, I became my own teacher through reading and self discovery. Experience became more relevant than any teacher, coach or professor.
My pivotal moment came when I realized that in order to do good I needed to feel good.
Feeling joy was something I reserved for when I had free time. But after I prioritizing my health and feeling wonderful, I accomplished the same amount in less time. And I didn’t feel stressed.
In fact, taking time to feel good before I worked yielded more productivity and higher quality in the end.
I’m excited to grow personal and professional relationships where I’m authentic, free and appreciated.
Furthermore, I connect online and offline with my lovers. My fellow adventurers, global citizens and successful dream-chasers. People like you give me intimacy and companionship. Quality relations makes both parties feel exhilarated, vulnerable and refreshed.
I can’t wait to get to know you more. My preferred way to connect is one-one via a fly-me-to-you (FMTY) dates. FMTY dates with a travel companion allow you to fully immerse yourself in confidential intimacy and holistic relaxation.
That way, you’ll have the true Leijla Foss experience, quirks and all. The secret Leijla that nibbles dark chocolate, adult colors, roams the city sans makeup, and finishes your sentences. The Leijla GFE most are missing out on.
If a 1-1 FMTY date isn’t in the cards, please visit my calendar to see where my heart inspires me to explore. I have dreams of bespoke adventures worldwide where we can enjoy a dinner date or urban exploring together.
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